Ladies with babies/kids do you have alot of bitter people around you?

ok so since i've had my kids i've had alot of bitterness around me i'm the first in my generation to have kids so some of the other girls in my family hate that my kids and i get all the attention and can be nasty to me. Secondly i know people that can't have kids that are always making rude comments behind my back. thirdly i have aunts and uncles that never had the chance to have kids and they can be rude to me. my aunties a good example when i fell pregnant with my first my auntie called me and tried to force me to have an abortion i had a house a car and money so there really was no need for me to have one plus the dad and i had a good relationship we now have 2 kids and are getting married in april. so ladies or men have you ever experience this much bitterness? also when i said i was getting married a whole new other hoard of comments came out behind my back why do these people not just want me to be happy as i would be for them? what should i do?